In a heartening story that underscores the transformative power of companionship, Stanley, a rescue dog, has become a symbol of resilience and unwavering devotion. This furry friend’s unique coping mechanism for his fear of abandonment is nothing short of touching – quite literally.
Stanley’s journey began when Sam Clarence, a compassionate individual and volunteer dog walker for the Christchurch Breed Rescue, decided to foster a six-month-old puppy. Little did Sam know that this would mark the beginning of a profound bond that transcended the ordinary.
Rescued from an abandoned lot along with his sibling and mother, Stanley carried the scars of a tumultuous past. However, in the loving care of Sam, he found not only a forever home but also a lifelong friend.
Source: Sam Clarence via The Dodo
Describing Stanley’s initial days, Sam recalls, “He was so scared when we got home that it took him an hour to slowly get out of the car. When he gets out, I give him a nice bath, some food, and a soft bed in front of the fireplace.” These initial moments set the stage for a relationship built on trust, understanding, and an unspoken connection.
Source: Sam Clarence via The Dodo
As Stanley adjusted to the comforts of home, it became evident that his love language was undeniably physical touch. “When he was a puppy, he would sleep with me in bed, and we would never not touch each other. He would lie behind me and always have at least one paw touching my back; if I move, he moves too,” Sam fondly recalls.
From this foundation, Stanley evolved into what can be affectionately termed a “Velcro dog” – one who insists on constant physical contact. This endearing trait took root, with Stanley refusing to let go of Sam’s hand, a poignant gesture that symbolizes his overcoming the fear of being abandoned once more.
Source: Sam Clarence
“We have to touch all the time. He was very strong about it,” Sam explains, emphasizing the depth of their connection. This need for physical closeness extends to various activities, from watching TV to driving, where Stanley insists on maintaining contact, a testament to the strength of their bond.
Stanley’s transformation is not just limited to his attachment to Sam; he also embraces outdoor adventures with enthusiasm, particularly enjoying trips to the beach, rivers, and lakes. However, his unwavering love for his father remains the constant in his life.
In the end, Stanley’s story is a testament to the healing power of love and the resilience of animals who, despite facing adversity, can overcome their past traumas. Through his insistent need for touch, Stanley has not only found solace but has also become a source of joy and inspiration, reminding us all of the profound impact that compassion and companionship can have on the lives of those who need it most.